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How to answer the "Where do you see yourself in five years?" job interview question
It's one of those interview questions thats been around for so long that when we're preparing for interviews, its become as much of a staple as "tell me about yourself".
But do interviews still ask this in interviews and do interviewers actually expect you to know where you'll be in five years?
Your objective is to prepare the evidence, not the answers.
Beverley
2 days ago6 min read


How to prepare for your interview
Your objective is NOT to prepare an answer for every possible interview question. That is impossible.
Your objective is to prepare the evidence, not the answers.
Beverley
Aug 156 min read


If I were preparing for an interview, this is exactly what I would do
If I were preparing for an interview, I wouldn't try to prepare for every possible question, I wouldn't memorise perfect answers, and I definitely wouldn't try to completely get rid of my nerves or pretend they don't exist. Instead, I would focus on becoming the most prepared version of myself, and this is exactly how I would do it.
Beverley
Aug 117 min read


Why do I feel like a fraud at work?
You get the promotion, you get positive feedback, your manager tells you that you're doing a good job. But instead of thinking that you must be doing something right, you think, "How long until they realise I'm not actually as good as they think I am?"
Beverley
Aug 44 min read


Behind The Scenes of Interview Coaching: Five Different Client Challenges
A lot of people assume interview coaching follows a fixed structure. The same questions, framework, answers, and process. But in reality, every sessions is different, even though there's a clear approach.
Beverley
Jun 25 min read


How to Book and Manage Coaching Sessions
How to effectively book, reschedule, and manage your coaching sessions on the Coached by Beverley website.
Beverley
May 24 min read


You knew what to say.. so why didn't you say it? How to speak up in meetings with confidence
You had the thought, you rehearsed how you want to say it, and then someone else said it.
Beverley
Apr 83 min read


Most people don't know what actually happens in a coaching conversation...
... and that's usually the reason they never book one.
Not because they don't want help but because they don't know what to expect.
"do I have to explain everything perfectly?"
"what if I don't know what to say?"
"is it just someone giving me advice?"
Beverley
Mar 192 min read


"I know I should stop softening my language... but how do you actually break the habit?"
You're in a meeting, you have your point, and you hear yourself say,
"I just wondered if maybe we could..?"
The annoying part is that you already know you do it. You've probably even told yourself you should stop, but when it's a habit you've built over years, awareness doesn't change it.
Beverley
Mar 165 min read


Five Confidence & Communication Challenges My Clients Brought to Coaching This Week
Confidence does not look the same for everyone. This week, I saw challenges from interview nerves, to speaking in meetings, to holding authority under pressure.
Beverley
Mar 74 min read


I Help People Build Confidence. And I Still Get Nervous Sometimes.
Even though I'm experienced, qualified, and confident in my work, there are still moments where my old patterns get triggered. Intimidation, self-judgement, comparison, the inner voice that questions if I belong, or questions my worth.
Beverley
Mar 54 min read


Stop Fighting Your Nerves. Do This Instead.
If you've ever felt your face heat up, your voice tighten and shake, or your heart race while speaking, you'll know how tempting it is to try make it stop.
Beverley
Feb 174 min read


Advice is the Laziest Form of Engagement
Not all advice is bad - some is thoughtful, asked for, and genuinely useful. But there are times where advice is unsolicited and given without enough understanding of the context. And whilst this often comes from a well-meaning place, it can feel surprisingly undermining.
Beverley
Feb 123 min read


"I'm not good at selling myself in job interviews" (and why that's not actually the problem)
What they usually mean is:
I'm not comfortable talking about my experience without downplaying it,
I worry about sounding arrogant,
I don't want to feel like I'm performing,
it feels awkward and doesn't feel like me
Beverley
Feb 112 min read


The moment most people give up on confidence work (and what to do instead)
A conversation where they were interrupted, feedback that lands harder than expected, a moment where someone points out the exact thing they've been working on (not in a good way)..
It doesn't just feel like the work isn't working, but feels like you've made things worse for yourself.
Beverley
Feb 74 min read


"Fake It Till You Make It" is Terrible Advice. Here's What You Can Do Instead
You've probably heard it a million times, I've even said it myself (despite now saying it's terrible advice):
Fake it till you make it.
Act confident, act capable, act like you belong (and eventually people will believe it.. maybe even you will believe it too..)
Sounds good on paper, but in practice it's not so helpful. Here's why and what you can do instead.
Beverley
Feb 66 min read


When logic isn't enough: a coaching tool that helps with decision making
A lot of the clients I work with are logical, thoughtful, capable people.
They are good at weighing up pros and cons, they understand consequences, and are not impulsive decision makers.
But, they often come to coaching feeling stuck. And usually, it's not because they don't understand their options - it's because logic is competing with emotion, responsibility, guilt, or fear (and logic is losing).
Beverley
Feb 44 min read


Job Interview Tip: It's not what you did, it's how you talk about it
Here's 5 steps you can take to turn any interview question into a behaviour-focused answer that shows your skills, thinking, and alignment with company values.
Beverley
Jan 316 min read


6 Things I Do Now That My Younger Self Would Be So Proud Of
This morning, I started thinking about my younger self and how proud she would be of the person I've become. So here is a list of things my younger self would be proud of.
Beverley
Jan 306 min read


Is Talking About Confidence Un-British?
In the UK, a lot of us grow up learning that confidence should be subtle. You don't want to show off or make things awkward. You're encouraged to work hard, keep your head down, and hope the right people notice.
Beverley
Jan 284 min read
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